There is a very widely held belief that even women will admit to believing a lot of the time and that is - in order for a guy to be able to attract and date really beautiful women, he has to be rich. The idea that you need to have a lot of money to date beautiful women does have a decent amount of support to back it up. You see really rich guys dating beautiful women and the logical conclusion to draw from that observation is that in order to date good looking women, a man needs to have a lot of money.
Does it have to be that way?
You know, the reality is that there are some women who are attracted to men
with money for the sake of money. They are opportunistic and they do exist.
So, it would be foolish to act like that doesn't go on or like there aren't women out there who totally fall for a guy because they want to have access to
his money.
That definitely does happen.
However, there are plenty of good looking women who don't fall for a guy because of his money pile.
Just because he happens to have money, that doesn't mean that is what attracted
her to him. Sometimes it has to do more with the fact that he is a man of
ambition and that is what really drew her in. Sometimes it is just that he got
lucky and their paths happened to cross and they hit it off. She would have
fallen for him anyway, even if he was sans the fat bank account.
So, just because you see what appears to be a direct correlation there ... doesn't mean that it always is because of the money.
Some of the time it is, some of the time it is not.
You don't have to be rich to date beautiful women. And you don't have to assume that if you are not in the millionaire class that you have to set your sights lower than you would like to.
What you do need to do is understand that women who are beautiful ... have different experiences socially than women who are not so beautiful. They get treated differently and it often starts pretty young, so by the time you meet a woman who is gorgeous and 25 or so, she has already had lots of guys try to find a way to get a date with her or get her in bed.
Usually, you have to raise your game to a slightly higher level.
That's okay though, because it's good to have a challenege. It makes you grow a little and makes you do things that you normally wouldn't do. It can also make attracting average women seem easy, because once you know that you can attract a really gorgeous woman ... you are not going to be as easily intimidated about making approaches or asking for dates or even just making some flirty small talk.
No, you don't have to be rich to date beautiful women. Just realize that reality is what it is and yes, there are some gorgeous women who totally want a guy who has a lot of money. Pass by them and you'll find that there are plenty of good looking women who are deeper than that.
Does it have to be that way?
You know, the reality is that there are some women who are attracted to men
with money for the sake of money. They are opportunistic and they do exist.
So, it would be foolish to act like that doesn't go on or like there aren't women out there who totally fall for a guy because they want to have access to
his money.
That definitely does happen.
However, there are plenty of good looking women who don't fall for a guy because of his money pile.
Just because he happens to have money, that doesn't mean that is what attracted
her to him. Sometimes it has to do more with the fact that he is a man of
ambition and that is what really drew her in. Sometimes it is just that he got
lucky and their paths happened to cross and they hit it off. She would have
fallen for him anyway, even if he was sans the fat bank account.
So, just because you see what appears to be a direct correlation there ... doesn't mean that it always is because of the money.
Some of the time it is, some of the time it is not.
You don't have to be rich to date beautiful women. And you don't have to assume that if you are not in the millionaire class that you have to set your sights lower than you would like to.
What you do need to do is understand that women who are beautiful ... have different experiences socially than women who are not so beautiful. They get treated differently and it often starts pretty young, so by the time you meet a woman who is gorgeous and 25 or so, she has already had lots of guys try to find a way to get a date with her or get her in bed.
Usually, you have to raise your game to a slightly higher level.
That's okay though, because it's good to have a challenege. It makes you grow a little and makes you do things that you normally wouldn't do. It can also make attracting average women seem easy, because once you know that you can attract a really gorgeous woman ... you are not going to be as easily intimidated about making approaches or asking for dates or even just making some flirty small talk.
No, you don't have to be rich to date beautiful women. Just realize that reality is what it is and yes, there are some gorgeous women who totally want a guy who has a lot of money. Pass by them and you'll find that there are plenty of good looking women who are deeper than that.